Acceptance for closure

2/3/2021

Closure is such a universal part of every breakup. Most people find comfort in understanding and making sense of a loss. But what if you weren’t in control of your breakup or even agree with it? It makes healing and moving on even more difficult than it has to be. Today, we’d like to talk about an element of closure that can help you gain a sense of control because it is something you’re completely in charge of: Acceptance. In this sense, acceptance does not mean you approve or agree with what’s happened, it simply means you’re going to stop fighting the reality of what is. In acceptance, we surrender to the facts even if we do not like them. We stop engaging in what if’s, we stop thoughts about what could have been and replace them with that is.
Here are some examples of phrases that emphasize acceptance:

I accept that I don’t have any communication with my ex even though I don’t understand it.
I really wanted to work things out, but I accept the reality that my ex chose to move in a different direction.
I’m going to let go of my anger about the situation by accepting it as a fact.

I understand that this exercise might feel a bit cold to some people. You might be wondering, what if I don’t want to let go and accept? It’s not that we don’t hold compassion for the grief that comes with breakups, but in acceptance we focus on what is within our control and work towards healing. Acceptance gives us a break from being stuck in difficult emotions and frees us from exhausting mental work that comes with resisting the facts. When we whole-heartedly practice acceptance, we give ourselves the gift of closure even if we have felt completely powerless in our breakup process.

10 Comments

sarah alfred

7/1/2021 05:42:50 pm

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7/5/2021 03:36:22 pm

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7/17/2021 09:30:00 pm

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7/31/2021 08:32:30 am

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Susan Christian

8/1/2021 08:06:09 am

Hello to everyone out here, I am here to share the unexpected miracle that happened to me … My name is Susan Christian , I live in London, UK. we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do, i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted Dr Emu for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he Dr Emu casted on him that make him come back to me today, me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Emu for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact Dr Emu ,if you need his help you can contact him through his private mail: emutemple@gmail.com or you can contact him through his website https://emutemple.wordpress.com/ fb page Https://web.facebook.com/Emu-Temple-104891335203341 and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay.

Elizabeth Cane link

8/11/2021 01:24:28 am

Hello everyone i am very glad shearing this my amazing testimony on how Priest Bacasim brought back my husband, i have been living in hell for the past 2 years since my husband left me, i saw a testimony of a woman online on how Prist Bacasim restore her husband back to her, so i decided to also contact him through his email pristbacasim2000@gmail.com he promised he will bring back my husband in 48hrs, at first i didn't believe it 100% but i have no choice, he told me what i should do which i did, on a faithful morning as i was preparing for work i saw my husband in front of the house i was so surprised, he started begging me to forgive him, i had no choice but to forgive him and now we are living happily together.
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Claire link

8/26/2021 06:37:18 am

I am here to give testimony on how this powerful spell caster called Dr Orman helped me to fix my relationship. I was heartbroken when my love told me he is no longer interested in marrying me because he was having an affair with the other woman where he works. I cried every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help, that was when i read a review about the great work of Dr Orman , then i contacted him for help to get my lover back, he helped me cast a powerful (reconciliation love spell) and to my greatest surprise after 48 hours of doing the love spell my lover came back on his knees begging me to forgive him We are now happily married and all thanks goes to Dr Orman Wonders for helping me save my relationship you can contact Dr Orman through his email address: drsakomo@gmail.com or WHATSAPP him on +905394479522
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Marc link

8/26/2021 06:38:27 am

Hello everyone my name is Marc Jean i am from Switzerland but i live in the United states of America Texas, I am a Gay, my fiancee was cheating on with another gay partner when i got to discover, he broke up with me and said he doesn’t want me any more, i cried, heart broken and emotionally broken down until a friend of mine introduce me to Dr Orman, I explain everything to him and said told me everything will fine and my Fiancee will come to back begging that he was under a spell, he prepare a charm for me, after five days my fiancee came back begging forgiveness, we are finally together again, love each other endlessly, I am sharing this testimony for the good work of Dr orman,If you have any problem in your relationship just contact dr orman on his WhatsApp +905396060968 or email him on dr.orman980@yahoo.com.OR orman.spiritualist3002@gmail.com All your problem will be solved

Ric Clayton

9/13/2021 06:18:54 am

I really want to thank Dr Emu for saving my marriage. My wife really treated me badly and left home for almost 3 month this got me sick and confused. Then I told my friend about how my wife has changed towards me. Then she told me to contact Dr Emu that he will help me bring back my wife and change her back to a good woman. I never believed in all this but I gave it a try. Dr Emu casted a spell of return of love on her, and my wife came back home for forgiveness and today we are happy again. If you are going through any relationship stress or you want back your Ex or Divorce husband you can contact his whatsapp +2347012841542 or email emutemple@gmail.com website: Https://emutemple.wordpress.com/

Kallya

9/14/2021 08:54:04 pm

Hello my name is Kallya from USA i want to tell the world about the great and mighty spell caster called Priest Ade my husband was cheating on me and no longer committed to me and our kids when i asked him what the problem was he told me he has fell out of love for me and wanted a divorce i was so heart broken i cried all day and night but he left home i was looking for something online when i saw an article how the great and powerful Priest Ade have helped so many in similar situation like mine he email address was there so i sent him an email telling him about my problem he told me he shall return back to me within 24hrs i did everything he asked me to do the nest day to my greatest surprise my husband came back home and was crying and begging for me to forgive and accept him back he can also help you contact

ancientspiritspellcast@yahoo.com or ancientspiritspellcast@gmail.com

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